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Phil Griggs's avatar

All this resonated with me! Evangelicals like structure and security but that doesn't mean our growth in Truth is that way. Its filled with paradox and a lot of whys that don't get answered. Even in Job, when God answered Job, He didn't feel compelled to answer all Job’s “Why me?”.

Repentance is a daily part of our growth in sanctification and changing our mind /metanoia is Stage 3 of the cycle. Your post is warm with growth! I loved it! Thank you !

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Beau Stringer's avatar

I’m so glad it resonated, Phil!

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Rearranging Deck Chairs's avatar

“Flip-flopping was for politicians and people who didn't really believe what they claimed to believe.”

Chris Lacivita used “flip-flopping” as a sign of weakness in the Swiftboat Veterans for Truth campaign against John Kerry back in 2004. Regardless of Kerry’s history, that campaign against him infuriated me, increased my respect for principled mind-changing, and left me with a lot of pessimism that we’d ever come to see it as a virtue. Still don’t know if we will, but I really appreciate your assessment of mind-changing as an act of faithfulness.

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Beau Stringer's avatar

Thank you for the encouragement and for reading along.

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Barbara Jones's avatar

One thing that’s changed is my belief that it matters much the details of what you believe in the grand scheme of things. I tell folks that there’s not going to be an exam waiting on them at heavens gate. Answers are really not as important as the questions one comes to form as life and faith evolve. I’ve come to realize it’s about faith, not belief. Faith in a few things-that the Creator made me out of love and that the Creator is love itself. “From stardust you were made and to stardust you will return.”

Marcus Borg (if you don’t recognize him you should add him to your reading list) defines faith as trust. Trust in the Creator-trust in the Holy.

Welcome to the journey of spiritual formation. It began before you were created and continues throughout life and beyond.

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Beau Stringer's avatar

These are wonderful comments and insight. Thank you!

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Berta Vanslyke's avatar

I am a work in the progress changing my thinking that I knew anything about God. His power. His sovereignity. His mercy. His love. I let go of thinking I had any ability to define what He is. I slip back into old ways sometimes, and when I do, I remind myself to look outside to the planet he created for us to care for. That is my very real reminder that I know nothing about the awesomeness of God.

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Beau Stringer's avatar

Thank you for sharing so honestly about your journey, Berta! We are all a work in progress. :)

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DJ  Vogel's avatar

I recently started reading about and listened to a webinar on Open and Relational Theology by Thomas Jay Oord. I’m still new to the subject but I have to say that the opening paragraph struck a chord with me: “Open and relational theology is a contemporary theological movement that emphasizes two central convictions: 1) God experiences time moment by moment and therefore is not immutable or impassible in the classical sense, and 2) God engages in genuinely reciprocal relationships with creation.” Oort proposes that “God’s nature is inherently loving, responsive, and dynamic”. I am interested in hearing your thoughts on this theology.

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Beau Stringer's avatar

I’m a big fan of Thomas Jay Oord! Glad you brought it up. Super fascinating.

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Tracie DeLano's avatar

Love this! Thank you!

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Beau Stringer's avatar

Thanks for reading! Glad it resonated. 😊

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Barb's avatar

When I became a paying subscriber in July I wrote to you saying that "your writing is worth paying for." You kindly made a comment about that. This article is proof that I was so right!

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Beau Stringer's avatar

You’re the best, Barb! So grateful for your kindness and support.

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Barry K's avatar

Very nicely put.

I used to believe it was the unfortunate fate of some folk to eventually suffer "eternal torment in hell". But after reading Gregory of Nyssa, George MacDonald, and David Bentley Hart I changed my mind and came to believe Universal Salvation is the best way to reconcile what at first reading seem to be contradictions in Scripture concerning final things.

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Beau Stringer's avatar

What a beautiful journey! Thanks for sharing that Barry. 😊

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Irwin Harder's avatar

This is so good. Thank you. I feel like I’ve been slowly doing this over the years. “The sin of certainty” by Pete Enns helped me in this regard. There is so much freedom in not having to have the right answers all time, but it’s hard letting go.

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Beau Stringer's avatar

I love Pete Enns! I also found this book super helpful. Thanks for reading. :)

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